Quietly find and remove the old messages, photos, and documents from past chapters — privately, on your own machine — so the only history you carry into your marriage is the one you choose to keep.
On-device scanning · Explicit-photo detection on by default (off per connector) · Detected images stay blurred until you choose to look
Years of messages, old shared folders, scattered logins. Most of it is harmless. Some of it you'd rather not carry into a marriage. Haven walks through it with you, privately, and lets you decide what stays.
Old intimate images that could resurface — by accident in a shared library, or maliciously by someone who still has them. Haven finds them in your message history so you can decide what to do, on your terms.
A Drive or OneDrive folder still open to an ex — sometimes holding personal financial or medical documents you never thought to lock down. Haven surfaces what's still exposed and lets you revoke access in a click.
Passwords, reset links, and 2FA backup codes from old accounts, scattered across email — the kind of thing a future spouse, or a hacker, could stumble on years from now.
Years of iMessage with past partners, friends, and family. Haven scans it entirely on your Mac and shows each finding inside its surrounding conversation — so nothing reads worse than it actually was.
This is the part people worry about most: that cleaning up will become a conversation, or a confession, or a project you have to explain. It doesn't. Haven runs entirely on your own machine — no cloud account to log into, no shared dashboard, nobody else in the room. The clean-up is yours, start to finish. You bring forward what you choose, quietly, and that's the whole point.
When Haven looks for old intimate photos, it treats them with more care than anything else it touches. Detection is on by default, and you can turn it off per connector. Previews stay blurred. And one safeguard can't be switched off — by you or anyone else.
Explicit-photo and intimate-content detection run out of the box — unreviewed intimate content is among the most damaging things to lose with a device. You can turn either off per connector, any time. Image attachments are scored on Haven's own GPU: in memory, never written to disk.
Detected images appear as blurred thumbnails. Revealing one is always a deliberate click — never automatic, never a surprise scroll past something you weren't ready to see.
If an image co-occurs with any signal of a minor, Haven refuses to surface it as adult content — full stop. That safeguard is always on and is not a setting anyone can disable.
Detected images are handled with care: previews stay blurred until you reveal them one at a time, and image bytes are scored on Haven's own GPU — in memory, never written to disk, never a third party. You decide what to reveal, and what to remove. Haven just makes the careful version the default one.
The tools for going through years of digital history without dread — and without anyone else involved.
Every message finding shown inside its surrounding thread, so nothing reads worse than it was. iMessage, scanned on your Mac.
Detected photos appear blurred. Click to reveal, one at a time. Revealing is always a deliberate choice, never automatic.
A co-occurrence gate refuses to surface any image alongside signals of a minor — always on, and never a setting you can disable.
Find Drive and OneDrive folders still open to an ex — old financial or medical docs — and revoke access in a click. Files you own.
Old passwords, reset links, and 2FA backup codes sitting in your inbox — surfaced so you can rotate or remove them before they follow you.
Delete, or move to an encrypted local vault. Every action is logged and reversible for 30 days from your Activity Log.
Clean up without the fear of cleaning up too much. Nothing you remove is truly gone for thirty days.
No judgment here — just plain answers about how the private clean-up works.
No. Haven runs entirely on your own machine — there's no shared account and no dashboard anyone else sees. The clean-up is yours alone, unless you decide to share it.
Explicit-photo detection is on by default, because catching this before a device is lost or used for extortion is the whole point. It looks only at iMessage image attachments on your Mac; previews stay blurred until you choose to reveal them one at a time; content involving minors is never flagged; and you can turn it off per connector. The image bytes are scored on Haven’s own GPU — in memory, never stored.
Everything you remove is reversible for 30 days from the Activity Log. Deleting moves things to a recoverable state first, not straight to gone — and moving to the vault is fully reversible whenever you like.
Your photo library, your files, and your full message text are never uploaded. Two narrow things do leave — always to Haven’s own servers, never a third party, held in memory and never stored: a short redacted text excerpt when an item is genuinely ambiguous, and, for explicit-photo detection, the image bytes of iMessage attachments. The Network Activity log shows you exactly what leaves, every time.
Not at all. Wanting your digital life to match the chapter you're starting is healthy, ordinary, and entirely your business. Haven just gives you a private, careful way to do it.
Haven gives you a private, on-device way to choose what comes with you into your next chapter — and what stays behind. No drama, no cloud, no one else in the room.
macOS & Windows · On-device scanning · Explicit-photo detection on by default (off per connector) · 30-day undo